Sunday, December 20, 2009

EXCLUSIVE! 5 Non-Negotiables to Get a Bad Bitch

I don't think it's a secret that Bad Bitches are very much sought after. Very similar to the fountain of youth, the 8th wonder of the world, heaven.... Everyone wants to get there! And now, I am about to reveal 5 things that must be honored in order to accomplish that goal.

DISCLAIMER: All Bad Bitches are different and of course people look for/need different things in relationships, partners, and people in general. But these non-negotiables will apply to the foundation of ANY healthy relationship and any real Bad Bitch (not one of those knock off "barbie" impostors) will honor these as such.

1. Before you can even think about approaching a bad Bitch you have to know yourself. Please don't take that lightly. You need to know who you are COMPREHENSIVELY (your qualities, your quirks, what you're looking for, goals, character, etc.) and willing and committed to being that person ONLY. Being a bad bitch is about being whole. We require the same from people that we closely interact with. A bad bitch is not likely to sacrifice her wholeness (yes I made that word up) in attempt to complete you. So sorry to all those in character, impostors, stunnas, cheaters. You already failed.

2. Before making any commitment, you have to do your research. If you meet a bad bitch and you want to give it a shot it is very important to get to know her. Not her hobbies or favorite color necessarily, but you should be looking for indications that her wants and needs match yours. IMPORTANT POINT about research... This "research" period is not only for you. During this time she should be learning the same things about you as well. This is especially true if you are looking for something casual. If you know you are only interested in a sexual relationship don't waste my time asking about my relationship status, etc. You're only objective should be finding out if I'm interested in the same thing, with you.

3. Honesty. Honesty. Honesty. Always be upfront. Bad Bitches keep it 100 and can spot a bullshitter from a mile away. Don't sugarcoat, beat around the bush, or lollygag. Be upfront because you'll always get the same in return. This is always easier said than done, but here are some tips. A Bad Bitch will leave you with no reason to lie. We understand the imperfection that comes with being human and accept the good with the bad. Also, sometimes its not what you say but HOW you say it. Remember that.

4. Respect. If you want to get with a Bad Bitch you have to accept the situation at hand. I'm a Bad Bitch. You must respect that for what it is at all times. I know my worth, don't try to make me think otherwise. Instead, prove yours, because I prove mine over and over again. I'm not your child, your mother, or your object. I'm your partner. Who I am is not up for discussion. We were individuals when we entered this relationship. Never forget that. If you do you might be in physical danger.

5. You have to read badbitchsociety.blogspot.com It's only appropriate. LOL

3 comments:

  1. this is why i love you wifie, so wonderful. now get published!

    ~Britt

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