"Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself." -Bernard Shaw
... But don't take it too far. Don't attempt to create a persona that isn't really you. This is the mistake many strags make trying to play bad bitch dress up. But instead, do what feels right. Not what's expected, not what looks right. Only do things that make you feel like a self made bad bitch at the end of the day. THAT is how a bad bitch is created.